Dear St Valentine   41 comments



Dear St. Valentine

Thank you for all the sacrifices you made ( not the least of which the loss of your head). Imagine putting your very life in jeopardy so that lovers of non sanctioned religions could be joined in holy matrimony until death or divorce proceedings.

I’m sure if you had realized how long people would eventually live you might have re thought the whole until death do us part portion of the vows. It seems as though some folks over the years have taken that piece a little more literally than perhaps it was intended.

Regardless of all that, I do have some rather pressing questions that I wish you could clear up for me? I realize you have long since passed and may not have foreseen all of the strange traditions that have evolved over the centuries…but you did cure the blind daughter of your jailer so responding from beyond the grave might just be in your wheel house.

Anyway just in case you’re bored here are a few thoughts and ponderings that have troubled me over the years.

1. Why do we celebrate this as a holiday and yet receive no Stat pay or day off in lieu of? I for one think it more than worthy of a day off so that we could spend ttime pondering the significance of your sacrifice to married people everywhere.

I would also think that a day spending time pondering the exclusivity of the people allowed to partake in wedded bliss might also have some merit. If you truly were such a champion of love it does beg the question which side of that little powder keg you might find yourself on.

2. Why do flowers cost 40% more in the week leading up to Valentines day and die 50% faster? I told my husband very early on in our relationship that should he ever waste our hard earned money on flowers as a gesture of romance he will find himself experiencing some alone time in the time out corner. Not that he has ever been particularly romantic ….although for our 6 month anniversary he did buy me a 12 gauge shot gun. Which I thought was rather brave of him..until I realized he hadn’t bought me any shells. Story for another time.

3. Why do we stand fixated in front of a sea of greeting cards in a desperate search to find just the right words that truly depict the depth of our love and devotion to our significant others? Isn’t it enough that we don’t kill them in their sleep? I think that speaks volumes.



4. A diaper wearing bald baby shooting at people with arrows?  I can’t even begin to phrase the myriad of questions I have  on this disturbing piece of imagery




5. Why do we have to send our kids to school from the age of kindergarten with 30 valentines cards written to each and every kid in their class including their teachers? I’m all for kids playing the field and keeping their options open but I don’t think I’m comfortable with the idea of my third grader sending love notes to their 47 year old teacher. That kind of logic got Mary Jane Laterno in a whole world of legal trouble and I for one think we should have seen that one coming.

6. Sexy lingerie WTF? Costs a fortune and ends up on the floor in the first 30 seconds. And let’s be honest when a man gives the gift of lingerie it’s really not so much a gift but a bit of a race to see how fast we as women can get Jenny Craig on the phone to somehow bridge the gap between what size our husbands thinks we wear and the reality of our Hagan Daz ice cream loving ass.

Anyway in the off chance you can somehow shine a light on any of my ponderings I would be forever grateful. You don’t have to be all burning bush fancy, a simple hand made card would suffice. Perhaps in the shape of heart?

Respectfully yours
Janyce Resh

Ps no questions need answered on the obligatory valentine chocolate box. That is a no brainer…..


Posted February 10, 2014 by janyceresh in Uncategorized

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41 responses to “Dear St Valentine

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  2. I particularly like no. 3. Very insightful!

  3. I loved this! It was great!

  4. LOL!! This was fantastic! Happy VDay to you !

  5. This is simply brilliant-thank you for sharing it!

  6. Okay, I have just read through your blog and I am convinced we are twins switched at birth. Thanks for the follow- I’m coming back sis.

    • Well I always wanted a sister. Growing up with 2 older brothers was a rather testosterone filled childhood. Lots of notes to self…including girls can but should not pee standing up. Reading your blog I would be honoured to call you sister!

  7. I loved it! Thanks for the follow and thanks for the laughs 🙂

  8. Brilliant! Love the blog!

  9. Great layout. And you are definitely comedic.

  10. A valid set of questions there I think! The Diaper clad baby has always been a source of confusion for me.
    Just a heads up (I’m sure you have received your fair share of these already!) I have nominated you for a Liebster Award! Check out my blog post to find out a little more and to possibly seriously question my sanity.

    PS – I think it’s safe to say you have already answered question 6 in you tag line up there!

  11. I’m not sure how you found me but I’m so glad you did! You are SOOO right up my alley (as I pick puffy glitter alphabet Valentine-making stickers off my socks.) This was awesome!

  12. love the statement “isn’t the fact we don’t kill them in their sleep enough” soooo funny!! I have always had a love/hate relationship with Valentine’s Day … seems it’s become another money out of my pocket kind of holiday and I would like every day to be appreciated and value love … not just that one day!!!

  13. My question is this. The man gives his wife a gift of sexy lingerie, but who is the gift really for?

  14. Ha.

  15. Great laugh! I love the way your mind works!!

  16. I’ve always said the same thing about flowers on Valentine’s Day. Also, don’t send flowers to me at the office, they will die. There’s something about the office air, or maybe it’s the office water, that kills flowers overnight.
    Very funny post.

  17. This was so funny! We all know we’re thinking these things! Why, indeed, do I have to send all those cards to my son’s class. I didn’t fall for it this year….well, I really just forgot…

  18. So funny!!!!! I’m sending myself a link to your blog to read at work this week when I’m bored out of my senses. Thanks in advance for that!

  19. Saint Valentine won’t have a lot of commenting on the diaper baby – that’s Cupid, a leftover Pagan godling from Rome hanging around. It is possible that this was his day originally and Valentine moved into his turf.

  20. Jany, thank you for following my blog! I am so glad to find out about yours and love the humor of it! I will enjoy following your blog. I liked the Valentine’s one, and I can kinda imagine all the reasons what the one about a man being sick will be funny! 🙂 I will enjoy.

  21. Oh my gosh, this made me laugh out loud! seriously, VALID questions… I HATE Valentines DAY! HATE it! It is ridiculous… When I have friends who prioritize dates for it, I throw up a little, in my mouth. That being said, my daughter did bake cupcakes and we baked cookies. I mailed my friends sweet cards and I did the cheeziest gifts for my husband AS A JOKE. (we’ve also been together for 20 years and I’ve NEVER given him a Valentines gift.) also… He does buy me flowers every year, but i LOVE flowers… So… And I complain because you’re right, they cost twice as much as any other time…

  22. PS- thanks for following my blog!

  23. Isn’t enough that we don’t kill htme in their sleep?!? Hah! I needed a good laugh today. thanks for the follow. This looks like my kind of blog.

  24. You inspired me to read up on St Valentine. Sounds like he should also be the patron saint of draft dodgers. : )

  25. It’s been fun reading your blog! Thanks for the “follow.” I look forward to reading more of your stuff in the future! 🙂

  26. Congrats! I’ve nominated you and your blog for a Liebster Award.
    Go to
    Go to this link if you want to see where it started.

  27. Thanks for a great laugh! I’ll keep coming back when I start to take myself and life too seriously:)

  28. So many questions that I too have pondered often in the past. Vday is ok-as long as I can make fun of it.

  29. I feel there might be a creepy ass connection between the diapered cupid, a kindergartener, and MaryKay Laterneaux, but it might be a brain fart…smoke is beginning to curl from one of my ears…

  30. This was a great read and had me smiling from the start 🙂

  31. LOL! Your humor is exquisite and your questions are divine(?).
    I’m sure St. Valentine is still mulling over his answers. Glad to know someone still realizes Valentine’s Day was once St. Valentine’s Day, before lesbian-led, radical, second-wave feminism shot Christianity full of poison darts. Thanks for following my blog.

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